The end of 2011 is here and it is time to reflect on the good and not so good of the past year. We are in a very unstable time in the history of our country and the world. Even if 2011 was not the best year for you, there are always things that we can find to be grateful for.
“If you continue to do what you’ve always done, you will continue to get what you’ve always got.” I’m not exactly sure where this quote came from but it is a good way to reflect on the past year and think about the year to come. I also always publish the list below every year because it is a great compilation of some of the most important things in life.
These 21 suggestions for success are authored by H. Jackson Brown, Jr. I have a framed picture of these hanging in my office and read them every day. I get comments about them all the time from people saying how much they like them. Cut this column out, hang it on your refrigerator and read it frequently.
1. Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.
2. Work at something you enjoy and that’s worthy of your time and talent.
3. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
4. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
5. Be forgiving of yourself and others.
6. Be generous.
7. Have a grateful heart.
8. Persistence, persistence, persistence.
9. Discipline yourself to save money on even the most modest salary.
10. Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
11. Commit yourself to constant improvement.
12. Commit yourself to quality.
13. Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but on relationships with people you love and respect.
14. Be loyal.
15. Be honest.
16. Be a self-starter.
17. Be decisive even if it means you’ll sometimes be wrong.
18. Stop blaming others if it means you’ll sometimes be wrong.
19. Be loyal and courageous. When you look back on your life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did.
20. Take good care of those you love.
21. Don’t do anything that wouldn’t make your Mom proud.
22. (my own) Strive for optimal health……and that includes dental health.
Read this list often and take these suggestions to heart. They will be sure to make your 2012 great. Happy New Year!